http://community.realtytrac.com/forums/3.aspxenCommunityServer 2008.5 SP2 (Build: 40407.4157)http://community.realtytrac.com/forums/thread/766.aspxSun, 12 Sep 2010 05:02:34 GMT464be561-3cfa-4c42-9be0-9131f5a8deae:766Gramie5http://community.realtytrac.com/forums/thread/766.aspxhttp://community.realtytrac.com/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=3&PostID=766<p>We are like many others and will soon have to leave our lovely home.&nbsp; My husband has cancer and is recovering but has many side effects.&nbsp; Our medical bills make it impossible to continue paying our high mortgage.&nbsp; I have been working with the bank but they are not helping.&nbsp; We are not behind but will not have the funds come Nov to make a full payment.&nbsp; &nbsp;I took out most of&nbsp;my retirement funds and purchased another smaller home.&nbsp; I understand we have a &#39;Recourse Loan&#39; on our current home as we had a second at one time.&nbsp; Does anyone know what can happen to our retirement funds?&nbsp; What financially can the bank do?&nbsp; We were told to do a short sale but I don&#39;t know if that helps us or not.&nbsp; If we file bankruptcy will that protect us in anyway?&nbsp; I haven&#39;t slept in months can anyone offer any information..............please Gramie</p><div style="clear:both;"></div>